Why this relationships coach says couples can use pornography to enhance their sex livesUploader: Kijora 1 month ago Subscribe 6
We think you'd also like. While this may be an extreme view, many clinicians have suggested that if a couple uses pornography as a stimulus for intimacy, or if they both agree to read or view pornographic materials together, then porn use is fine. Finally, the support of porn use is reinforcing an industry that abuses the actors employed to create the pornography see The Empire of Illusion by Chris Hedges. But if we realize that in our marriage we are free to be real in front of each other and there is no pretense, we allow ourselves the grace to be patient and honest with each other. Exploring pornography with your partner is an exercise in honesty and trust. I have a very strong view on the topic, and the below letter by John Gottman perfectly sums up the effects that pornography has on relationships.